SPIRITUAL!

Moment to moment seeking within self first!

Looking for friends in all the right places...
We are Family!

"Awareness of a greater truth adds time pressure to your psyche and spirit, becuase the more you know, the faster you need to respond to the truth, I call this spiritual accountability." By: Carolyn Myss in her book, Sacred Contracts pg. 126

Another of my favorite quotes by Carolyn Myss:

Your highest potential then, is that part of you that is not limited in its expression by the fears of the physical world and the business of living.

It is what you actualize when you are willing to confront your shadow, openly acknowldge the reality of its presence within you, and then take steps to deal with it. (ACTION)

To rely on your own inner resources and to follow you inner guidance before all else is to express your highest potential at all times.

It shows who you would be if you could live constantly within the knowledge that genuine power exists inside the self and never outside of it. pg. 127

Are you spiritual? In what way do you manifest it?

love and Gratitude,
suzyq

Greetings Guest,

When I meet you upon this quest and there are 2

Do we know... can we cease to think... and just be...

are we 1 as 2 as you were 1 as 1 originally... was there

ever a difference? Do we ever cease to be?

Stop thinking: Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now pg. 134

"Another portal into the unmanifested is created through the cessation of thinking." "This can start with a simple thing, such as taking one conscious breath or looking, in a state of intense alertness, at a flower, so that there is no mental commentary running at the same time."

"There are many ways to create a GAP in the incessant stream of thought." "This is what meditation is about."

My eyes intensely focused into yours, I offer this gift freely, may you find what it is that is not there, but is everywhere.

Perhaps we merely think we know?

Love and Light,
suzyq

I found no personalization in your post. Although turned around, you know through our long talks I do have plenty of personal experience being judged and moulded.

From the Feminine perspective looking at how the Patriarch can and will make the same attempt to mould and thus control the development of the feminine when allowed.

Are you jello? Am I? To be shaped and moulded in a form? To be served up in a particular way? Garnished (dressed up, perhaps) I do not agree we need be. Sacrafice one for the other is not an option in this Era. Rather it is outdated and needs to be unlearned.

Do we play the victim when we cry out we have been moulded?

Although, it happens often enough and this is all too unfortunate. I am listening as you unfold such a story.
I hear your pain. I know the pain all too well. When does the suffering end? When we choose differently? How can we be certain? Who reading this knows for sure?

Would I choose the Prince or the Frog before me...must there be one or the other? May I not see them both equally in flux and varying in degree from moment to moment. I choose to rejoice in their Presence as one being?

Princess or Frog the same?

I choose to see all the facets that make such a being as real and ever changing.

Acceptance, love, compassion, trust are these not the true gifts that assist true love in its journey to finding authenticity? What more need the other do?

I do not see it as my role to change the other.

Nor my resposibility.

Although, perhaps encouragement, noticing zeal, goodness, growth, a spark of creativity, showing gratitude and remembering continuous service to the other as a priority in life could be seen by some as a sort of moulding. I do not see it as such.

What then would one such as myself be moulding exactly, when viewed through such a narrow microscope?

Yes, it could be the maternal instinct, the womenly wiles, the desire to love, to comfort and to heal. What more are you seeing that I do not?

It has often occured to me one gives that which they most wish to receive. What do you think?

"This is not to say the changing isn't right sometimes..."
Yes, this change occurs from within self though and is not external or directed by the other and is best if it is not.

Resentment and eventual parting will thus be the end result often times when manipulation and service to self are the underlying ploys.

Although, exceptions do occur and we will no doubt touch on this. Perhaps something blinds one partner from recognizing self for a brief period and a boost from the other partner is what is indeed needed, a hand held out, a guided step...how can this be wrong or moulding?

I believe you inferred there comes a point when in a relationship of a molded and shaped caliber (manipulation) you wake up late in its grasp to discover you feel rather dead to the experience. Of course! It is suffocating! This is a common phenomenon. So many miss this as the underliying reason too. Then go on to repeat the same pattern again and again.

Guidance that is Sought Out, not Thrust Forth...Seeking Direction out of the Union...Questioning...Honest Communication...Nurturing...Equality....Give and Take.

Give me more here...

So your last question is why do men fancy women rather than look for things to fix? Do I have this right? (I am giggling! ROFL!) I love the word fancy! Please, they have already decided on many of the things that are unacceptable by this stage. As I stated above, many men do go on to become moulders and jello makers!

Who are you kidding?

We fancy you guys too, never really listened to two girlfriends in conversation curled up in one anothers laps have you? Giggling into the night about boys...well do I have stories about how they fancy you guys! Simply swoon! So does this take us back to the beginning...are they seeing merely the Prince and not the totality...depends on the girl. Depends on whether she is conscious or not!

What does the eye, the mind behold?

Pondering mindfully with and open heart,
suzyq

THE AGE OF KALI

One set of dualities is prescibed for man (male and female) in each age. In the age of KALI it is Liberality Alone.

Define Liberalitiy?

This is a time of broadmindedness.
A willingness to share freely.
Generosity.
Abscense of narrowness, prejudice or judgement.
The ego is not fully engaged, rather a state of being must exist.

pg. 307, World Scripture: A Comparative Anthology of Sacred Texts

Kali is the light and the dark, the shadows in between.
This Goddess energy exists within all things for it brings us impermenance and birth all in the same creator Goddess.

Compassionate as perceived by the mind of man in one moment and destructive as perceived by another. Yet, why are we judging when judegement is not ours to behold.

Life was created with the purpose of an end. Living with the challenges of suffering to increase growth. Each given their own measure.

It is a matter of perspective and to judge it, while in the midst of it, is foolishness at best. Another judgement of 10,000 things.

So I ponder this...is it limitation you saw or merely the duality of a time of liberality?

The rest of your post seems more personal and reflective.

My heart is saddened when it penetrates every cell of my being recognizing you feel you have yet to meet even one women, who does not seek to change you. HMMMM! I thought perhaps you had.

One women who can not accept you as cellularly different and changed moment to moment. For this is the natural state of all beings. The women herself has also changed. Does she not see this as well?

Why else have we conditined our minds to ask at each meeting "How are you...(now?) If in some way we did not recognize a change has occured? Actually the changes have no doubt occured on many levels, if we were only to seek them out and ponder there significance and accept them completely. Remember to think upon this the next time you hear these words or speak them so automatically...
"How are you?"

An example: I see, as a women, future partners, be it lovers or friends for the potential they radiate forth.

I see first the potential that is within myself and my own committment with my Higher Power, which for me is God.

I look to this as my foundation and decide if a longer term relationship will be possible based upon the strands of lights I see emanating from each of us. Yes, admittingly I do see and sense them on many levels.

Are they indeed heading in the same direction, similar perhaps? I take time in seeking out these similarities and honor the differences, as well. For in duality both will exist.

To assume all women judge in this era or that they are out to change another is just not so. The person they are longing to change is themselves whether they are conscious enough to hold this truth or not. Please do not personalize it any other way. It is about them and not about you, in every instance.

Thank you for letting go of your preconceived ideas and acepting those who have done so also into your life with an open mind and an open heart. Know that I believe.

Allowing change into your life is vital and allowing the other to change, a precious gift when remembered. Let it be.

Are we not all seed planters? Whilst you lay upon your bed at night do you realize I do know the seeds I sow within your heart? Some I am aware of and others merely dreams that come back to me.

What attachment occured in our communication of the days events? How was it received?

Each of us need time in nightly meditation and reflection to ponder these things. How have we touched the life of another? What was our service of the day? How could tomorrow be different if we choose it to be?

Our dreams will take us to these thoughts if we do not confront them directly for they are necessary for our own growth and change and in service to the other.

Kali lives on and will continue to be. Change is upon us all.

Yes, you are open hearted and lovingly receptive Zanda and we as women are very grateful for your presence always!

Yet, not like a girlfriend at all...no, more like a "soul" friend. For even in the silence, the gaps, the peace and joy that "is" silence between the words shared, the understanding and communication persists and is ongoing. It follows one through the day and into the night entering a dream like state and awakens each new day.

Live in the NOW! Resist the need to be the controller or to be controlled. Learn to recognise this destructive force in your own life, this applies to all who read these words, including self. Choose growth over stagnation and join Kali in change as liberality!

In Love and Light,
suzyq